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Why is it that so few people are willing to keep changing and taking action until they get what they want? Why do so many people quit along the way? Worse still, why do some people even procrastinate in initiating action? The reason is that while everybody desires to succeed, only a few have the power of commitment to achieve their goals.
For most people, having more money, more freedom, more security, and more success is a desire. They think it would really be great to have it. But they can live without it if they had to. As a result, they never take action as something more important always comes up to fill up their time.
When a goal is nothing more than a feeble desire or a wish, you will find yourself being held back by setbacks, frustration, and failures. People whose goals are nothing more than desires will only do whatever is within their comfort zone to achieve it. Beyond that, they will give themselves all kinds of excuses for not doing it. As a result, they will never do whatever it takes to get what they want.
| 5% of people are COMMITTED to succeed | 95% of people WISH, WANT, HOPE, LIKE to succeed |
| They make it a MUST | Act within their comfort zone |
| Do whatever it takes | Give lots of excuses |
Make Your Goal a MUST
People who achieve their goals are those who are truly committed to get what they want. To them, their goals are not a mere wish or a weak desire. They are an absolute must. When a goal becomes a must, we operate from a very different frame of mind. When something becomes an absolute must, we will do whatever it takes to get it (within ethical, legal, and moral boundaries, of course).
Time and again, you will notice that people who succeed are those who show this level of commitment. In fact, it seems that failure, setbacks, and frustrations are life’s ways of testing our level of commitment. Most people fail this test by quitting when they hit major obstacles. The few who succeed do so because they do whatever it takes to overcome obstacles. When something becomes a must for you, and you are willing to do whatever it takes, you will always find a way!
“When We Give Ourselves No Option but to Succeed, We Will Always Find a Way!”
It is truly amazing what we are capable of achieving if our life depended upon it. Have you ever set a goal to lose weight through constant exercise and dieting? Most people get excited and motivated for a couple of days or even a couple of weeks but pretty soon they give up and fail to get any results. ‘I just don’t have the discipline!’ many people would say.
But, if someone were to put a gun to the head of a loved one and threatened to kill that person unless you lost 10kg in a reasonable period of time, do you think you will be able to achieve it? At this time you will have a different level of commitment to achieving this goal of losing weight.
We all have the resources and capabilities to achieve any goal, it is just that we lack a compelling reason… a MUST to do it. When something becomes a MUST, it taps into our unlimited personal resources and this enables us to achieve virtually anything!
Story of Commitment (Sylvester Stallone)
Surely one of the best examples of commitment and how ‘doing whatever it takes will get you what you want’ is the story of Sylvester Stallone.
At his peak, Stallone was one of the most popular and highly paid stars in Hollywood, commanding a fee of US$20 million per movie. Was he just born under a lucky star? Was he a naturally talented actor? And was he at the right place at the right time? Hardly. He was someone who seemed to have all the odds stacked up against him. (Image credit Wikipedia)
His family was so poor that his mother had to give birth to him on the doorsteps of a school. A blotched delivery by students caused a facial nerve to be severed, leaving him paralyzed on the right side of his face. As a result, Stallone had to live the rest of his life with slurred speech. He even had to deal with having a drooping lower lip and being made fun of because of his name ‘Sylvester’ (associated with the Looney Tunes cat). Despite all these limitations, young Stallone dreamed of becoming an actor and inspiring millions of people through his movies.
As you know many young people go through a phase of wanting to be an actor, a star… the difference between Stallone and the rest of youthful dreamers was that his dream was not merely wishful thinking. To Stallone, it was an absolute must. He was truly committed to doing whatever it took to make it happen.
First, he enrolled in acting school and then started going for auditions. Predictably, with his wooden acting, his dopey looks, and his slurred speech, Stallone was rejected for every part he applied for. But he never gave up. Doggedly he just kept changing his strategy and taking action.
The way he landed his first part is a fine example of how he was willing to do whatever it took. When he was rejected after yet another audition, he pulled up a chair in front of the manager’s office and sat down, refusing to leave unless they gave him a chance. After sitting there for hours, they were so moved by how much he wanted a chance that they relented and gave him a part. Although he appeared for a couple of minutes (as an extra), it gave him that first breakthrough he was after.
Unfortunately, that experience was followed by yet another string of unsuccessful attempts at getting another acting job. At that point, his wife told him to give up his ‘stupid dream’ and get a real job. His reply was, ‘If I get another job, I would lose the only thing I have got going for me… my hunger.’ ‘By quitting (my quest) and getting a job, I would be selling out on my dream’.
Stallone eventually wound up so broke and desperate that he was forced to sell his dog for $50 in order to survive. It was the saddest moment in his life because his dog was the one friend he had got left.
At the lowest point in his life, he watched a boxing match between then world heavyweight champion Muhammed Ali and Chuck Wepner, an underdog that everyone thought would be defeated within three rounds. What no one expected was Wepners’ determination and tenacity. He lasted the total of fifteen rounds with Ali, just refusing to go down.
Stallone was so inspired by what he saw that he had visions in his head about a movie that he was going to write. He started writing profusely for 84 hours non-stop until he finished the manuscript for ‘Rocky’. He was so excited by the script because in his mind he knew that this was going to be the movie that would change his life and his fortune.
But when he went around attempting to sell his script, everyone felt that it was too predictable and that nobody would be interested in watching a movie about boxing. But he didn’t give up. He kept on going and going until one company made him an offer of US$75,000 for the script and the rights to make the movie. This should have made Sly overjoyed but his dream was to be an actor and not a writer.
So, he told them that the condition of the sale was that he be cast as the lead actor. They objected saying, ‘You’re a writer! you’re not an actor!’. ‘There is no way we will let you act!’ But Sly stood his ground and refused to sell the script if he wasn’t the lead actor. They then increased their offer to US$255,000 up to US$1 million, but Sly kept insisting that he fitted the role of ‘Rocky’, and no one else. Although he was broke and hungry, he refused to sell out his dream for a six-figure paycheck. That was his level of commitment!
Eventually, they reluctantly agreed, on the condition that the movie be made on a shoestring budget of less than a million dollars and Stallone would get only US$35,000 for the writing, and acting. Sly would, however, get a percentage of the profits, if the movie made money. He agreed immediately.
The first thing Sly did when he got his money was to go in search of the man who bought his dog to buy it back. When he finally tracked down the man, he offered to buy his dog back for US$100. The man declined his offer saying that he was not interested. Sly upped his offer to US$500. Still, the man refused. Sly again upped his offer, this time to US$1000. The man still would not budge saying, ‘No amount of money will ever convince me to sell this dog.’
While most of us would give up at this point, Sly knew that if he was committed to do whatever it takes, he would find a way. Eventually, he did get his dog back. He paid the man a whopping US$15,000 and also gave him a part in the movie as part of the deal.
When Rocky was launched at the box office, it grossed over US$171 million and was nominated for ten academy awards (including best actor), eventually winning an Oscar for Best Picture & Best Director. Sylvester instantly shot to fame as an action star and lucrative offers came in for future blockbusters, which were to eventuate in First Blood, Rambo, and the Rocky sequels. His eventual success came from the fact that to him, becoming an actor was truly a must. He believed that when you have the power of commitment, there is always a way!
So, what is your level of commitment to achieving your goals? (Excerpt from ‘Master Your Mind, Design Your Destiny’ by Adam Khoo).
The Wealth Code: Volume 1 is a personal development and financial education book written by Vinod Singh. It is designed to empower readers by teaching them principles of wealth creation, financial freedom, and personal growth. The book offers practical strategies to achieve financial success, with a vision to uplift and transform the lives of millions by promoting financial literacy and entrepreneurial thinking. Singh’s approach is rooted in inspiring individuals to take control of their financial destinies while cultivating a mindset focused on long-term success and abundance.
